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School Meals

School lunch

Please see our menus for School lunches, which are provided by Olive Dining and run on a 3-week cycle. From September 2021 Olive Dining will be offering the Autumn menu:

Autumn Menu-Week-1 (commencing Monday 6 September and every 3 weeks thereafter)

Autumn Menu-Week-2  (commencing Monday 13 September and every 3 weeks thereafter)

Autumn Menu-Week-3 (commencing Monday 20 September and every 3 weeks thereafter)

Please see Olive Dining's Food Allergen Information

You can also download Olive Dining's latest newsletter.

At Prendergast Ladywell School, we operate a cashless system for students to pay for snacks at break-time and School lunch. You may find our Cashless Guide to PLS useful.

If you initially declined the opportunity for your child to use their fingerprint to access the cashless canteen system and have since changed your mind, please complete the Biometrics (cashless catering) Form, which provides us with permission to do this. Please see Olive Dining Price List 2017


ParentMail

Our cashless catering system is linked to ParentMail, so you can top up your child's lunch account, and also see how they are spending their money at the canteen.

Students who are in receipt of Free School Meals can also log on and check that their child has taken a school lunch, and how they spend any money you credit to their account.

If you have not yet registered with ParentMail, please do! You can use the free App to keep track of all School correspondence and School Reports, as well as pay for things like School Trips and top up cashless catering accounts.


Free school lunches

At Prendergast Ladywell a hot healthy lunch costs £2.42 per day (£11.50 per week). If your family receives certain benefits, your child may be entitled to free school meals, which could save you over £400 a year! This money is credited directly to your child's account so no one knows who receives free school meals.

In addition to free school meals, PLS will receive extra money (pupil premium) to benefit your child’s education. 

Apply online at www.lewisham.gov.uk/freeschoolmeals

There is a lot of information online here, including how you may be able to claim free school meals if you have no recourse to public funds: https://lewisham.gov.uk/myservices/education/student-pupil-support/free-school-meals-and-extra-support-for-your-child

Don’t miss out – apply today.

Wellbeing

Social, Emotional and Mental Health Support

In the Leathersellers’ Federation of Schools we aim to:

  • provide appropriate support for all students who have Additional Educational Needs
  • promote an ethos of inclusion
  • enable all students to access the curriculum and achieve their full potential

Providing advice and guidance is an important step in achieving these aims.

There are a small number of students whose needs necessitate additional support from specialist external agencies, many of which can be accessed through referral by your GP. In addition, there is a wide range of skilled support available to students and parents on the internet.

We have information on these pages for a number of support agencies relating to Self Harm, Disordered Patterns Around Eating Habits, Mental Health, Counselling.

We are also aware that specific recommendations are also helpful and we have included these appropriately.

Self Harm

Self-harm does not always just affect the individuals carrying it out, but also their friends, family and other people around them. Self-harm can be lonely and isolating and caring for someone who self-harms can be emotionally exhausting. There is no single cause or event that leads directly to self-harm, but rather a series of risk factors combine to increase the likelihood that a vulnerable individual will start.

Self-harm is a coping mechanism, therefore it is necessary for the individual to learn about safer alternatives. Students have told us that they find www.kooth.com useful as it is a confidential way of accessing counselling for young people. We provide information about kooth in in our schools.

Our policy is that it is unacceptable for students to self-harm in school; we have a rule that any self-harm marks on arms should be covered by long-sleeved tops for P.E. and that students should not show their cuts to their peers. We are happy to support in any way we can, but we always advise parents and their daughters and sons to see their GP so that they can offer the appropriate advice and referral to meet needs.

Alternatives to Self Harm

Soothing/Stress Relief/Distraction:

  • Going for a walk, looking at things and listening to sounds
  • Create something: drawing, writing, music or sculpture
  • Going to a public place, away from the house
  • Keeping a diary or weblog
  • Stroking or caring for a pet
  • Watching TV or a movie
  • Getting in touch with a friend
  • Listening to soothing music
  • Having a relaxing bath

Releasing emotions:

  • Clenching an ice cube in the hand until it melts
  • Snapping an elastic band against the wrist
  • Drawing on the skin with a red pen or red paint instead of cutting
  • Sports or physical exercise
  • Using a punch-bag
  • Hitting a pillow or other soft object
  • Listening to or creating loud music

 

Help for Young People
Professional Help:
GPs
School Counsellors
School Nurses
Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services - CAMHS*
*Usually through referral by GP or other professional

Helplines and Online Information/Support:

Young Minds
www.youngminds.org.uk

Childline
0800 1111 - www.childline.org

Samaritans
116 123 - www.samaritans.org

Harmless
www.harmless.org.uk

Kooth
www.kooth.com

National Self Harm Network – NSHN 
www.nshn.co.uk/

The Site
www.selfharm.org.uk/default.aspa

 

Help for Parents and Carers
Professional Help:
GPs
School Nurses
Counsellors/Therapists

Helplines and Online Information /Support:

Young Minds 
www.youngminds.org.uk
Young Minds Parent Helpline:
0808 802 5544 - Mon-Fri 9.30am-4pm

Samaritans 
116 123 - www.samaritans.org

Mind (over 18s only)
www.mind.org.uk

Rethink 
www.rethink.org

Harmless 
www.harmless.org.uk

Royal College of Psychiatrists 
www.rcpsych.ac.uk/healthadvice/

http://www.rcpsych.ac.uk/healthadvice/parentsandyoungpeople
/parentscarers/self-harm.aspx

The Maudsley Hospital
www.slam.nhs.uk

Disordered Patterns Around Eating Habits

While rates of clinical eating disorders are low, estimated from 1% to 3% of the general population, more subtle forms of disordered eating are difficult to pinpoint and mare more widespread.  People’s focus on size and weight, diet and exercise means that disordered eating is more widespread; such disordered patterns can also by their nature be episodic.

Mental Health

There are a number of organisations and groups that support young people and families who are concerned about mental health issues.

Counselling

There are a number of London-based counselling organisations that offer free or low cost counselling for young people and their families.

Student Welfare

E-Safety and Staying Safe Online

Common Sense Media have produced a range of What is…? Video introductions for the most popular social media Apps for young people. They are all short and explain the core functions of the app but also how the apps present safeguarding risks.    

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1YCGfBa9BUbMbVoA4XSOsR5BK7u-uTLC

Staying safe online in the summer holidays

Children and young people across the UK are getting ready to have more free time to spend with friends and family as the summer holidays get into full swing.  For many young people this time will be spent using the internet to keep in touch with school friends, catch up with the latest apps and online trends, and play their favourite games. 

Read advice for parents and carers - staying safe online in the summer holidays

Fortnite is a popular online video game. The recommended age to play is 12 and above. Read about child safety on the 

Child Safety on Fortnite - Parent Fact Sheet

Childnet Film Competition 2018

Childnet is a key Internet Safety Site with lots of advice for parents and children. The Childnet Film Competition invited schools and youth organisations from across the UK to capture their internet safety messages in a short film. This year, the film competition invited young people to think about how we can all make a positive difference online by supporting young people to ‘Connect with respect’.

The Film Competition 2018 was the biggest one yet, with over 200 entries from schools, colleges and youth groups across the UK.
The films were judged by Lisa Prime Children’s Events Programmer at the British Academy of Film and Television Arts (BAFTA), Catherine McAllister Head of Safeguarding and Child Protection BBC Children’s, David Austin OBE Chief Executive at the BBFC, and Joanna van der Meer Film Tutor and Family Learning Programmer at BFI Southbank.

https://www.childnet.com/resources/film-competition/2018

Grooming or Other Illegal Behaviour

If you want to report someone who is behaving suspiciously online towards a child, you should in an emergency contact the emergency services by calling 999, or otherwise make a report to Child Exploitation Online Protection Centre (CEOP)

www.ceop.gov.uk

Criminal Content Online

If you stumble across criminal content online, you should report this to the Internet Watch Foundation (IWF) at www.iwf.org.uk/report. Criminal content in the UK includes child sexual abuse images, criminally obscene adult content as well as non-photographic child sexual abuse images.

On-line content which incites hatred on the grounds of race, religion and sexual orientation should be reported to True Vision, which tackles all forms of hate crime, including those on the grounds of disability and transgender identity. True Vision, at www.report-it.org.uk, will give you information on content which incites hatred and how to report it.

Scams

If you have been ‘scammed, ripped off or conned’ you can report to Action Fraud on 0300 123 2040 or www.actionfraud.police.uk. This service is run by the National Fraud Authority, the UK’s government agency that helps coordinate the fight against fraud.

Getting Help/Advice: For Young People

ChildLine: Is a free 24/7 helpline for children and young people. Visit www.childline.org.uk  or call 0800 1111. ChildLine is run by the NSPCC.

Getting Help/Advice: For Parents

If you want to make a complaint about an advert, television or radio programme, film, newspaper, magazine, video game or other type of content that you think is unsuitable for children to see or hear, you can report it through ParentPort at www.parentport.org.uk.  Click on ‘Make a Complaint’ and ParentPort will take you straight to the right place to complain to.

  • Family Lives: A charity providing help and support in all aspects of family life. They have a 24/7 free Parentline on 0808 8002222, or visit www.familylives.org.uk
  • Kidscape: Is a leading anti-bullying charity, which provides a helpline for parents of children who have been bullied. From 10am to 8pm, on 08451 205204 www.kidscape.org.uk.
  • Childnet International Is a non-profit organisation working to help make the internet a safe place for children. ‘We strive to take a balanced approach, making sure that we promote the positive opportunities, as well as responding to the risks and equipping children and young people to deal with them’. Contact details are: www.childnet.com phone 020 7639 6967, email info@childnet.com.
  • UK council for child internet safety (UKCCIS) has practical guides to help parents and others with internet safety www.gov.uk/government/groups/uk-council-for-child-internet-safety-ukccis.
  • Thinkuknow has a section for parents which offers advice on protecting children from abuse online offered by the National Crime Agency’s CEOP Command www.thinkuknow.co.uk/parents.

For parents concerned that their children may be becoming radicalised online the DFE has set up a telephone helpline (0207 340 7264) and an email address (counter.extremism@education.gsi.gov.uk) to enable people to raise concerns directly with them.

Getting Help/Advice: For Professionals Working with Children

Professionals Online Safety Helpline: Helpline operated by the UK Safer Internet Centre offering professionals who work with children across the UK support, advice and mediation with on-line safety issues www.saferinternet.org.uk. The helpline can be contacted by email: helpline@saferinternet.org.uk or telephone on 0844 3814772 (calls on this number are charged at local call rate).

Age Restrictions on Social Media Services

http://www.childnet.com/blog/age-restrictions-on-social-media-services

WhatsApp have announced a new age limit of 16 for users based in Europe. With the upcoming changes to Data Protection rules in the EU, this blog looks at what age restrictions are in place across the most popular social media services, why they exist and what our advice is for parents and young people.

Which Social Media Services Are Age Restricted?

WhatsApp have just announced a change to their terms and conditions for users based in Europe. Users will now need to be 16 to use WhatsApp.

Nearly all other social media services require users to be at least 13 years of age to access and use their services. This includes Facebook, Snapchat, Twitter, Instagram, Musical.ly and Skype.

Whilst there is no age restriction for watching videos on YouTube, users need to be 13 or older to have their own YouTube account (enabling them to subscribe to other channels, like videos, post comments, share their own content and flag inappropriate content).

Why Do These Restrictions Exist?

The reason most social media services use an age limit of 13 or over is in part because of a law in the USA. The COPPA law or Children’s Online Privacy Protection Act states that any organisations or people operating online services (including social media services) are not allowed to collect the personal information of anyone under the age of 13 without parental permission.

To avoid the necessity of obtaining parental permission for any user under the age of 13, most services have instead chosen to place an age restriction of 13 to their services. They write this rule into their Terms and Conditions – which users must agree to when they initially sign up and some services may ask users to declare their age during sign up.

WhatsApp’s new age limit has been chosen in response to the new General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR) coming into effect from the 25th May 2018 and will only apply in the European region, and not elsewhere (e.g. the USA).

Users, and the parents of users, should expect to see more communications from companies and others over the coming weeks as they work to ensure that they are complying with the new General Data Protection Regulation.

What Do We Advise?

Whilst COPPA and GDPR exist to protect the personal information of children, there are also other elements of social media use which may not be appropriate for young users. Our Hot Topic for parents and carers provides more detail and guidance on these risks.

Our advice with regards to age restrictions is that it’s always better to wait until the required age to join any social media service. These rules around age relate to privacy, but also are relevant to safety. Some services offer additional protection for users who are registered as under 18, and by supplying a fake age young people can potentially lose some of this protection. Young people also risk being exposed to content which is intended for older users when they use sites that are not designed for people their age.

Additionally, if a service finds out a user is underage then they may delete the user’s account and any content which has been shared.

We know that social media services are popular with young people of all ages. Parents have an important role in helping prepare their children to go online before they start to use social media platforms. Together you can look at the key things they need to know about staying safe online, critical thinking, and the safety settings that are available to them.

When looking at creating a profile online with your child, have a discussion as a family and make this decision together – talk about why they want the account and ensure that any family members using social media know what tools are available to help them stay safe. You may want to use our family agreement to support with this.

Good Sources of Information and Useful Links for Parents About Online Safety